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Soldier Mom by Alice Mead
 
Soldier Mom
by Alice Mead
Published in 1999 by Farrar Straus and Giroux

Subject:
Gulf war, first Iraq war, Saudi Arabia
ISBN
0440229006

Summary
Alice Mead, a passionate advocate for children, stands up in this heartfelt story of the so-called Gulf War Orphans, and for every child who has lost a parent to war, even if not forever.
Eleven year old Jasmyn gets a different perspective on life when her mother is sent to Saudi Arabia at the beginning of the Persian Gulf War, leaving her and her baby half brother behind in Maine in the care of her Mother's boyfriend.

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Awards: Recommended by: National Military Family Association (for ages 9-12) 

The Horn Book: "Jasmyn is a realistically prickly heroine as she balances worry about her mom with resentment at being left. The war itself is entirely offstage, conveyed only through Mom's brief letters and phone calls; what matters here is what happens at home, and Mead paints an entirely convincing and involving picture." About the author

Booklist: "Mead never falters in preserving the voice and reactions of a typical pre-teen... Although Mead focuses here on the effects of war on children whose parents are soldiers fighting on a distant front rather than in their own country, she writes with the same compassion and sensitivity to the disruption of family life, the uncertainty and the fear she portrayed in Adem's Cross (1996)."


6th grader's review:
Dear Alice Mead,

Your book Soldier Mom touched my life deeply. This powerful book reminded me of my family. Ever since I can remember, both my parents have been in the military. Day after day, they left early and returned late in the evening. They went away on temporary duty – sometimes for months.

Luckily, they never deployed at the same time. At least I had one parent with me, unlike Jasmyn. But, like Paula, Jasmyn’s mother, my parents also worried about another child, my four year old sister, Libby. She sometimes spent long hours in pre-school, while my parents worked.

Military families move often and when I was told we were being relocated yet again, I became upset. I had finally settled down and made friends, but it was going to be taken away. No wonder Jasmyn was worried about moving to Japan with her dad.

A few weeks after I learned we would leave Alaska, I stumbled upon your book. I must admit I laughed a lot and even cried a little.

My favorite part was the ending when Jas takes a nice, long stroll with her mom after her deployment. I realized that there are kids out there who are far worse off than me.

Your book helped me with two things, to understand my parents’ loyalty to their work, and to get closer to my mom. Now, whenever I think of my mom, I do not think of her as someone who works in the military, but as “Soldier Mom.” Thank you, Alice Mead.

Sincerely,

Amber Rea
Mt. Spurr Elementary School, Anchorage, Alaska

 

 

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